Geli boleh tak? :p

Salamun salam and a very good days.. Too little too late perhaps, Selamat Menyambut Bulan Ramadhan Al-Mubarak semua. How's your puasa so far? Semoga mendapat berkat hendaknya :)

Anyhow, semakin hari semakin sibuk dengan assignments yang datang berpusu-pusu menyebabkan diri ini jarang online dan meng-update. Eh? :p Menipu disini.

There were times when we had this conversation. (we referred to me and F). I kind of influenced by the novels, movies and yang sewaktu dengannya with panggilan "Abang" for suami. Somehow, I feel like, it is such a sweet and gentle call for the husband.

I asked F either I can call him with "Abang" or not. (in future in sha Allah. Don't get me wrong, as if I wanted to call him Abang now) He definitely say no. For him, Abang is the old panggilan which a wife use to call her husband. And what more to say, when he said that panggilan "Abang" is for your brother only. As for me, I don't have Abang. I mean biological Abang but F ada abang. I have many bros which I call Abang with their last name after it. 

F cakap, kalau panggil "Abang", dia rasa tak special plus akan rasa janggal yang teramat. Actually, bila panggil F "Abang" pun macam geli gila. Hahaha. Plus minus, shivering, frozen and seriously geli yang teramat. Why on Earth should I call him "Abang"? Sedangkan there are loads of panggilan yang saya boleh guna. 

Well, the motip is just mengada-ngada and try to see his reaction. More to his facial response la. F, kalau geli, memang geli! But I swear, I prefer call him F or H... rather than calling him "Abang". Satu, bila abang-abang ada pada masa dia ada, orang akan confuse abang mana satu yang saya panggil. Kan? Dua, F confirm takkan bagi respon punya kalau saya panggil dia macam itu. Last, F nampak modern and Abang nampak macam classic and epic untuk orang sekarang la. Kalau mak-mak kita or orang masa dulu-dulu mungkin nampak sweet, kalau orang macam kita sekarang ni, I think we should think before we use that panggilan. But no harm for those who prefer "Abang". This is just a thought after all. 

Happy 5th Ramadhan fellow Muslims. XOXO